Matt wants to know if his relationship with Steve was a punishment of some kind. At one point I tell him it is not over and by the end I realize it will not be over until he releases the hurt and get on with his life.
Client: Hi, how are you?
Client: I didn't think it went threw lol
Client: Hi, I'd like to ask about a past relationship - just wanted to know if there was a reason for going through this experience.
M: what's your name
M: Okay, it did :)
M: there is always a reason. nothing is a waste if we learn something
M: what is your and his first name
Client: My name is Matt, his is Steve.
M: so i get...you lived together?
Client: We did not, no.
M: odd, a sense of i want to go away, like move away'
Client: I have moved away.
M: you can't be done
M: how long have you been split because it isn't over
Client: It's been four and a half years. It's over.
M: oh ok you did move
Client: Yes, I've moved.
M: you'll see him again, not sure it's a good idea though unless i am picking up a new person
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Client: I just wanted to know why I went through this.
M: oh why?...because you chose too. it isn't about success or failure. it is about growing
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Session Resumed 12:53:06 PM
Client: I haven't grown.
Client: Was this a punishment?
M: I think he was the...ya you have, you'll utilize it later
M: how old are you?
M: no, sometimes we are in a life long enough to either teach them or learn ourselves
M: you'll have another relationship you know
Client: I don't see what I've learned aside from learning to stay single.
m: chose wisely
Client: No way am I getting involved again.
Client: I'm choosing no one.
Client: This was it.
M: that's ok too. not time but when it is you will have another relationship with a very responsible person
M: might own his own business.
M: maybe june
M: your overthinking.
Client: I'm staying single indefinitely. I just wanted to know why I went through this. I haven't "grown," and I'm pretty sure it was a punishment.
M: it's good to have less complications so if not having a relationship brings more peace then that's ok
M: It was not sweetheart.
Client: It's kind of a no-win situation.
M: karma could play a role.
M: Just like everything else in life.
M: all is a state of mind
Client: I mean, if it were a punishment, I'd just like the confirmation.
Client: I'm pretty sure it was.
Client: Thanks anyway.
M: not a waste but when we leave here, we will understand it and the whys
Client: Leave where?
M: you'll date again. i promise
M: this is a temporary feeling
Client: I don't want to date again, I promise.
Client: I'm 44.
M: not now but you will
Client: I'm done.
Client: For real.
M: later you will
Client: ok by
M: ok, goodby
Session Ended 12:59:12 PM
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